Me Three

Disclaimer: This is not an opinion article about the #METOO movement.

I think it can safely be stated that the prevalent state of mind, at least for us in the Western culture, is "Me". This is not new. It has simply been amplified though all of the forms of media we have at our disposal.

Self-preservation is a core impulse built into our very fiber.
1. When faced with danger our body automatically kicks into "fight or flight" response.
2. When great emotional stress is placed on us our brain can disconnect (become dissociative), in order to preserve our well being.
3. Deflecting the blame is as old as Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden.

I remember from my childhood when a group of kids would be asked a question, one would immediately begin to cry out, "Me, me, me!" Another would chime in with, "Me, too!" Then another, "Me, three!" We all want to be chosen. We all want to be considered special. When we perceive this is not the case, it can cause poor behavior in order to attract attention. Other, out of their frustration, may actually attempt to harm themselves, or others.

In these days let us remember to treat everyone with respect, even if we do not feel they deserve it. That is not our call. Give them the same respect you would want to receive. Speak a kind word. Give a smile. You never know how it might affect their day.