The Dichotomy of Christmas

I’ve probably thought more about Christmas this year than any prior. As I’ve already commented, I have come to a place where the “happy holidays” and “merry Christmas” can both be embraced without any effort at all. When you look at life through a single lens, it’s easy to come to the black and white view many have about most every aspect of life.

I grew up in church. I have been a student of scripture for the past 50 years or so. When you read verses in the Bible like this one you can develop a very closed view of our world:

If anyone comes to me and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple. – Luke 14:26

These are words spoken by Jesus (i.e. Red letters). I’ve heard this passage “explained” in many ways and have even “explained” it a few times myself. Then you read another verse like this one:

And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength. The second is this: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. There is no other commandment greater than these. – Mark 12:30-31

How can you love your neighbor and hate your own family? Is that what we are to understand from these two very different quotes of Jesus? I don’t think so, but many use these kinds of verses to belittle the Christian faith; a faith based on the Bible.

But others in the Christian community make the same egregious error by trying to “spiritualize” everything. There is nothing “spiritual” about a decorated tree. Many American denominations put up a Chrismon Tree each year to celebrate Christmas and to spiritualize the most common Christmas tradition.

Others scream with veins popping in anger, “Keep Christ in Christmas!!” I have come to believe it stems from verses like those cited above, where at first glance you assume Christians cannot participate in any secular activity. Those with this mindset quickly remind any naysayers of this: 

Therefore, go out from their midst, and be separate from them, says the Lord, and touch no unclean thing; then I will welcome you. – 2 Corinthians 6:17

Yet, Jesus had dinner with “sinners”, talked to women in public (woman at the well), and also claimed to be the Son of God. He didn’t seem to have a problem participating in carnal activities yet did so without sin. This is why the Pharisees had him killed.

So, bringing this back to Christmas, how does a Christian celebrate during this season. We could do like the Jehovah’s Witness tradition calls for, and just pretend there is nothing different than any other day. We could be Scrooge and grumble about the whole thing. We could try to correct everyone’s theology to conform to ours by forcing every aspect of the season to be spiritual. Or we could do as what I believe Jesus would have done, and be salt and light as we go about celebrating this festive time of year. Sing the carols, light the tree, be joyous in giving gifts to others, and be gracious in receiving gifts given to us. 

I believe this would go much further in reaching out to others and showing them the “Reason” we have hope and joy. The “Reason” we can laugh and sing in a world that is seemingly darkening by the day. There has never been a greater need for “The Light” as there is today. How will they ever know the Blessed Hope we have in Christ if we do not show them? How will they ever see The Light if we keep it hidden behind our wall of judgement and condemnation?

How about giving it a try? The current approach is clearly not working.

It Must Be Christmastime

My Christmas Bucket List included writing a new Christmas song. I did that, and posted it earlier. I also wrote another which I forgot to post. Here is it.

Sleigh bells, joyous noels

It must be Christmastime

Beautiful trees, shopping sprees

It must be Christmastime

Candy treats, favorite sweets

It must be Christmastime

Mistletoe, candles aglow

It must be Christmastime

It’s so easy to see why these special days

Change our hearts in so many ways

Gathering with family and friends

Falling in love or making amends

Over the hill or in your prime

It must be Christmastime

Wonderful scents of pine and mints

It must be Christmastime

You here with me, just glad to be

With you at Christmastime

It’s so easy to see why these special days

Change our hearts in so many ways

Gathering with family and friends

Falling in love or making amends

Over the hill or in your prime

So glad it’s Christmastime

Christmas Is a Secular Holiday

Christmas is a secular holiday, and that’s ok. I still love it. I remember as a child seeing the use of Xmas, an abbreviated form of the word Christmas. It was seen as the work of satan, and was met with cries of “keep Christ in Christmas!” Little did they know the X was the Greek letter, chi, which was often used to represent Christ. 

Xmas = Christmas

The Catholic church, who created the liturgical calendar, placed the remembrance of Advent during the month of December, a known period of celebration of the sun (the star in the center of our solar system) being reborn, since the daylight decreases each day until the winter solstice, then begins to increase each day after. This practice dates back to a time before the birth of Jesus. Giving Christians an alternative seemed like a practical thing to do. However, this secular celebration did not look anything like our Western celebration of Christmas.

Christmas as we know it today is a relatively new thing. Many of the “traditions” of Christmas were only started within the past 200 years or so. Christmas was declared a national holiday in the United States in 1870. Before that, it was just another day for most. In contrast, the birth of Christ (Advent) has been celebrated for the past 2000+ years.

Before you decide that I have forsaken my faith (some of you may have already decided that), please hear the point of all of this. For me, I have arrived at a place where I can embrace both without any feelings of guilt or condemnation. I celebrate Advent (or Christmas if you prefer) to remember the miraculous process of God (the Word) becoming flesh living among us in order to “show” us the Father. Jesus personified the Godhead and provided a way for us to get back to our origin; to once again know the Creator as a Friend, One we can “walk in the garden in the cool of the day” with, just like Adam and Eve did.

I can celebrate Advent with spiritual fervor while wearing an ugly Christmas sweater, watching a Hallmark movie, drinking eggnog, sitting by a decorated tree. I don’t see them as mutually exclusive. All the trappings of the “holiday” (which literally means “holy day”) do not diminish my faith as a Christian, nor does it dilute my love and worship for the God who provided salvation at Advent.

I fully understand there are some who only celebrate the holiday and not the holy day, but deriding them or ridiculing them will not change that. The way for them to know the wonder of Advent is not do dismiss the tinsel and lights, but to introduce them to the One who brings wonder to life every day, not just at Christmas.

So, chill out when your neighbor’s decorative lights keep you up at night. Don’t fret over the money others spend on gifts for their family and friends. Don’t chastise others for saying “happy holidays” instead of “Merry Christmas”. Keep the peace and joy which Christ brings to your heart and share it with others you meet along the way. It might wind up as a win-win for both you and them.

Sunday’s Blessing – 12/17/2023

May songs of the season, both old and new, fill your heart with joy

May the sights and sounds of Advent and Christmastime fill your mind with wonder

May the story of heaven coming to earth give hope for both today and tomorrow

May the reality of God becoming flesh motivate you to good works

May the presence of the King give you peace

Another View of Advent

I’m probably the last person on earth to get this revelation. This morning while listening to the song, “Follow That Star” by Paul Baloche, I saw an image that made the whole point of Advent vividly clear to me.

Jesus was born in Bethlehem, in a manger, borne by a virgin, whose Father was God. There was a sign given, a star in the east, which drew people to Him. The angels announced His birth to shepherds and others (Anna, Simeon, Elizabeth, Zachariah, Joseph, and of course, Mary) which captured the attention of the magi (could have been many; only three gifts were mentioned). All of this I’ve heard from my childhood.

However, this morning as I was listening to the song several verses began to scroll in my mind. The first was Revelation 22:16:

I, Jesus, have sent my angel to testify to you about these things for the churches. I am the root and the descendant of David, the bright morning star.

Then I recalled John 3:3:

Jesus answered him, “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born again he cannot see the kingdom of God.”

Here’s the image which came to mind in all of this. Jesus, who was born under the sign of a star, became The Bright Morning Star which now draws us to our birthplace (born of the Spirit). We now follow Him, the Star, to encounter our Savior who is Christ the King! The Spirit is now actively working to bring us to the stable, the manger, where we experience being born again. This is the story of Advent. It’s not that Jesus came, but that in coming, He made a way for us to come back to the Father.

Sunday’s Blessing – 12/10/2023

Be comforted today by the Prince of Peace

Be consoled today by the Wonderful Counselor

Be encouraged today by Emmanuel, God with us

Be empowered today by Almighty God

Be captivated today by the Wonder of Advent

Be assured today by the Everlasting Father

Be joyful today because the Babe of Bethlehem is now the King of the Kingdom

Sunday's Blessing – 12/03/2023

May the wonder of Advent bring out the child-like wonder in you

May you know the magic of dreaming as you consider the miraculous birth

May you gain new hope in knowing that Messiah still lives

May your days ahead be greater than any behind because you have a future in Him

May you see the goodness of God in each gift, given or received

May you engage in inclusion instead of exclusion, because He came for all mankind

May you experience the love of Christ like embracing a newborn

May your joy overflow as the “thrill of hope” rises to new heights

May you be all you were created to be, which is a lot